I feel bad for those people who I bullied irl.
I too was a victim of bullying (of both kinds), and in the case of cyber bullying, it's not as easy as to block/blacklist, because some really stubborn bullies will find ways around it. It gets really out of hand when they find personal info on said person. I won't watch this video for two reasons: the only way I could watch right now is through 3G and 3G sucks, and this has trigger warning written all over it. In the case of to bullying, despite all the stereotypes about black women and cutting a bitch, I'm actually a pacifist. This isn't to say if a punch was swung I'm not gonna defend myself (I had to a few times). But I'm not one to pick a fight. My fighting is done with words, not fists. What has gotten me through that is knowing that those bullies are now in jail for pissing off the wrong person.
That is me in one word: Pacifist .......I do not start fights, maybe its my age, but definitely how I was brought up too. Reality is, when I was younger I acted stupid and irresponsible too but I had a good home support structure and parents that raised me very well. I knew where to draw the line, and I was taught respect, good values and morals. Unfortunately, today's generation gets away with far too much, to the point of self destruction. Bullies 9/10 times have it hard in their own lives, at home, with parents and siblings etc ....and the sad truth is they take it out on others. Bullying should be nipped in the butt at the root, the core .....merely reprimanding them is superficial and will not solve the problem.
same .. once a girl tried to suicide cause of me
the fact that you are aware of this and truely sorry about it makes you a good person. You realise what the things you did caused and you learned from it. It might not erase the acts but atleast you won't do it again, right?
my parents fight 24/7. I am so fcking depressed lately. when i was 6 kids of school threw stones at me, kicked me, punched me, called me names, etc.. the teachers saw all that happen, they didn't even BOTHER TALKING TO THEM. I gave an attempt to suicide, but a friend of mine held my hand (was outside of school) and told me not to do it. She passed away a few years ago in an accident.... I can't thank her enough for the life she has given me....
You make me cry.
The stuff you describe here about what happened to you at school and teachers not even doing a thing has happened to me too. I always wondered why they never stood up to those bully's. Turned out they were scared of them themselfs.. Horrible right? After i left that school things have changed alot. Sadly there had to happen horrible stuff to me and other students there to finally make them do something. But i guess thats with everything. I really hope that right now you are on a good school and that no one bullies you. I think i have you on facebook, so whenever you need to talk, you can pm me there or here *hugs*
Yes, I also learned from it and no I won't do it again.
That has happened for 1.6 years e_e and yup, i have your facebook xD (when i logged my barb a while ago just for the lolz i got kicked out, and i was looking forward to chatting with u guys q.q), but the teachers weren't scared, they just let the kids do whatever they wanted. after 2 months it got so bad they would also throw stuff at me in CLASS.
I really feel sad for you , but you know what, keep your head up, look life square in the eyes and know you gonna come out the other side much better off. You are a great person, it comes through in your posts!! This is how we all have our own cross to bear and our own story to tell ....and for that reason alone, people who do not know us or anyone for that matter, should think twice before they take all their hatred and disrespect out on a person. You , me and the next person don't know what goes on in others lives, they might have a terrible life, trying to survive, keeping head above water.Who gives any of us the right anyway to bully anyone else?
