So I never played this game hard core back in the day, and I've only been on this realm for maybe two weeks so I have no idea what any of that second sentence you said means Buffy, lol. I "tried" doing this hide and seek thing today, but I have no idea what you are looking for/what the rules are for that and its generally found before I can even get to where it is supposed to be (if I even know that place!)
I guess I also need a guide or something to these events. I never got to end game in the retail version of the game, and I'm new to private servers. So I need to know what the PVE events are, and how to do them. Are there any guides for that?