Are you using a custom UI? And did you equip any of the new smiley sets? When the patch came out for the new smilies.... I equipped the Youth Smiley set and my game IMMEDIATELY closed. Everytime I tried to open that character it happened again. (same thing you're describing) Eventually I had to have someone else log it and remove the smiley so I could log on again. Seemed to have fixed the problem.
https://panel.epicpw.com/resetstuck.php^ Try using this. It might help.
Yes I am using a custom UI :CThanks but nothing's changed
That's probably the problem. One of the new smiley sets is causing you to crash. Verify your client and try logging again, if it works then it'll take away your custom UI, but all you'll have to do is copy over the interfaces file into your element folder again (not surfaces because that'll mess it up again). And you should be able to use new smilies after that.
Problem is I cant even verify. It always says update server connection failed even though my internet connection works pretty well.
When was last time you played? if you didn't re-download client again your version may be too low and patcher won't auto-update it maybe patcher's address was changed since last time you played
Even when you've clicked update a few times and go through all the popups clicking okay? The same thing happens to the rest of us when we start patcher using custom UI. You'll need to go through all those popups that appear on patcher in order to verify. (Sorry if this doesn't make any sense >.< )
This too.However,I uploaded some screenshots of what I mean by confirming through everything (if you're a recent player):http://prntscr.com/9glnfnhttp://prntscr.com/9glnjzhttp://prntscr.com/9glm7g