Finding happiness any where depends on your own attitude. If nothing makes you happy for long in real life then how can you expect a game to make you happy. I try to find the happiness in the smallest things, let the small things count more than the things that make miserable. I do find happiness in the game, each character I get to end game, each character I get a little bit better with pvp, each time the base levels making a new friend in game, helping some one learn part of the game they did not know, learning part of the game I did not know. I am not a great pvper I know this but when I don't die in 2 seconds like I used to that also brings me happiness. Goals that are met, unexpected achievements, friends you never would get in real life, helping others, so many things you can be happy about I do not understand why people chose to be miserable and not look for the little things and let them add up. I do hope every one has a wonderful day.